Are big content creators going broke?
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Thursday, February 29, 2024
Are big content creators going broke?
Thursday, February 8, 2024
Why are you still struggling like a single mom when you are not?
Why are you still struggling like a single mom when you are not?
Sunday, February 4, 2024
Is your money not stretching enough this year?
Is your money not stretching enough this year?
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If your money isn't stretching very far this year, you are not alone. I had to cut corners myself. Food is high, and so is everything else. It is getting harder and harder to make it, quite frankly.
I haven't really been able to have a night out lately because food and transportation are so expensive, and you know you have to give a tip.
I have been spending more time enjoying my family. I am cooking more at home. I have a Firestick, and it is such a blessing. We enjoy watching movies and eating home-cooked meals together.
It truly is bringing us closer together. I am careful about not buying things that I really don't need right now. In the last two years, I actually prepared myself for this time because I started buying products in bulk to prepare for the increase in prices. I am still using these products today.
Check and see if there are any ways that you can cut down on some of your expenses. Sometimes, there are things that we are so used to spending extra money on that we don't realize that it costs a lot more this year.
Maybe you have the heat up high when you are at work and nobody is at home. You can put the heat down, and time it to come on when you are on your way home. That way, you come home to a nice and warm house.
Add more blankets to your bed to save money. Try doing most of your shopping in one trip so you don't have to make unnecessary trips, and this will cut down on gas.
Make a list of some of the products that you would be willing to buy that are generic and some of the products that you are willing to pay extra for.
Take on an online side hustle or do Uber or Lyft.
Learn how to cut or maintain your own hair at home. Hair clippers are very inexpensive compared to going to the Barber or hair salon.
Buy your snacks in bulk so you can avoid the vending machine at work.
I have been buying cheaper cuts of meat and preparing them in my crockpot. This saves quite a bit of money. Going to the butcher counter and finding out what meat is on sale will help you to save money.
Image courtesy of PixabayIf you are paying a lot of fees at the gym, spend time running in the park or buy gym equipment on Facebook Marketplace for a good price. This will save you so much money in the long run.
Buy your clothes in the summer so you can get them for a cheaper price.
If you have children, find a cheaper phone service that they can use. There are a lot of them out there, and they are always having promotions. Sometimes, it depends on how many lines you need.
Make a list of the things that you are willing to do without or cut down on this year. You will be amazed about the amount of things that you cut down on that will free up a lot more money.
Sunday, October 29, 2023
Lunch and chat with me/ He is not your kids uncle/ relationship and cheating advice.
I have a series that I do on YouTube where I have lunch and I chat with you. Today I am eating Blaze Pizza and I talk about why Men respect the wedding ring but Women do not. Sometimes, people think that they should date whomever they want without any consequences.
People get married because of love but also because it is a contract between you and that other person. To prove that it is a contract, you have to get a divorce to end it. So it isn't something that you should enter into without much thought.
When you are dating a Man who is married, it affects everyone in the family, not just the wife.
Nobody really thinks about the children and how this affects their self-esteem. Please check this video out, and please let me know what you think about this subject.
Tuesday, June 27, 2023
What is the best thing that you did for yourself this year?
What is the best thing that you did for yourself this year?
Friday, June 23, 2023
Family estrangements and how to cope with them
Family estrangements and how to cope with them
Friday, February 10, 2023
Do you mirror your friends?
Do you mirror your friends?
Over my lifetime I have had friends that dressed the same, act the same, and dated the same kind of people. Some of these people were doing this because maybe they felt that they wouldn't fit in if they didn't. I never really fit in, so I didn't care to dress the way they dress, or talk the way they talk, and I definitely, didn't want the same kind of boyfriends that they had.
My friends who did this even shared some of the negative aspects of their friends' lives. One person, in particular, had gotten pregnant as a teen because her friend did, and she wanted to be a teen mom just like her.
The problem with this is the fact that the friend (the leader) had a very supportive mom who helped her throughout her pregnancy but the friend who mirrored her friend ended up without any support.
Her mom was a single parent and she had four kids. She didn't want her daughter to turn out like her. She didn't have enough money to have another mouth to feed. She had warned her daughter many times that she would end up homeless if she became pregnant or if she became incarcerated.
She didn't realize that her daughter didn't love herself. Her daughter was actually a very smart young lady, but she had fallen because of peer pressure and because she didn't feel good about herself.
Her daughter ended up in a shelter for unwed mothers (that is what it was called at that time). What seemed like a fate that you would not wish on your worst enemy ended up becoming a blessing in disguise.
She had a lot of services at her fingertips. She was able to get a trade and have parenting classes, and she started mirroring the positive people who were in her life.
What started as a negative trait ended up saving her life. She was able to get a great job, put her child in great schools, and worked on her self-esteem. You see, that was the main reason why she ended up as a single mom.
She started counseling to see how and why she felt very low about herself. My friend totally changed her life around. The moral of this story is for you to surround yourself with people who are doing great things in their life and also learn to love yourself.
There was a time when I didn't love myself but I had to reach inside myself to find out about all the great things that I had to offer the world. I also spent a lot of time alone and I began to love myself. I started to educate myself quietly so I didn't have to deal with the negative opinions of others.
I don't care what your life looks like at this time. You may not have the same things that your friends have. You may live in the inner city and don't have much support. Start researching different services in your local library and places like The Urban League to see whether they have free classes or groups for someone like you.
Try not to mirror anyone. Be yourself and work on yourself. You do not have to be in competition with other people. You are great! With a positive outlook, you are going to do great things in your life.
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