If You Need Some Advice, Feel Free To Ask An Anonymous Question.

Hello, Ladies and Gentlemen,

If you have some questions and need some advice, please feel free to send me your questions at,
sashamoniquetalks@gmail.com.  I am not a Doctor so I am unable to give you any medical advice.  I will answer to the best of my ability.

He Is So Boring; Should I Stay With Him?

Anonymous Question,  Sashamoniquetalks, I have been in a relationship with a man for three years.  We get along fine but the problem is, I am so bored with him. 

 This man just wants to come home from work, eat and then go to bed.  I need some conversation and some affection,  This man used to be fun to be around but it is like he is sleeping his life away.  I love him but I am thinking of getting out of this relationship.  What should I do?

Sashamoniquetalks, You said that you have been in a relationship with him for three years and he was fun to be around before.  Did he start a new job or did something else change in the relationship? 

 I actually needed more details but I will tell you this much If he did change jobs or have a long commute to and from work it could be wearing on him physically.  He might really be tired.

Talk to him and see whether or not something is going on with his health because it could be.  You said that you get along fine.  The truth is, no relationship is going to be perfect. 

 If this man is supportive of you and loves you, you will have to find ways to make this relationship satisfying. Tell him how you are feeling and maybe you will need to go out with family or friends to fill this void.

If I was you, I would stay with him because it really could be worse!

How Deal With Being A Step Parent.

The Single Women's Prayer

First of all, being single is a time to enjoy yourself and find out who you really are but there is a time when a woman will get that feeling that it is time for her to get ready for marriage. 

 Marriage is wonderful if it is, shared with the right person and it was ordained by our creator. So below is a prayer that some of us single women have.

                                  The Single Women's Prayer

Dear Lord, please let me enjoy my single days and take advantage of the peace and the blessings that you gave for me to partake of quiet nights without someone snoring and hogging all the covers on the bed. 

 Thank you for the days of just jumping up and deciding at the last minute that I want to go out with family and friends and I don't have to let anyone know when I am coming back.  The Dog is by the door when I come in and happy to see me and I don't have to listen to any complaints or questions, Thank you, Jesus.

Thank you for giving me women's intuition when that fine chocolate man wanted to get my number and you softly whispered into my ear and told me, "No my daughter, he will break your heart and, he is married."  I appreciate the people that you put into my life when I needed to vent and cry about my singleness.

Lord, you protected me while I was alone and scared and you put a hedge of protection around me and my dwelling. but, Lord, now I am ready, my heart is open and willing to trust you to find the man who is willing to come together and share in the blessings that only you can give and make him a man who is after your heart dear Lord, and please make me into the beautiful wife who is patient and understanding because no man is perfect.

I promise to work on any issues that I may have and when you find him, please, whisper into my ear and let me know that he is the one chosen by you.  We will work together and grow old and I will remind my children about this prayer and teach, my daughters what prayer can do.  Thank you, Lord.

Should I Marry My Boyfriend I Met Online?

Should I Marry My Boyfriend I Met Online?



Anonymous Question:  I met a man online and we just clicked immediately.  We have been chatting for 4 months.   This is a long-distance relationship.  He asked me to marry him last night.  The problem is, we never met in person.  I want to marry him.  What should I do?



SashaMoniqueTalks:   A lot of men who date online are not really serious about relationships.  Why hasn't he come to see you?  Is this man really the person he's portraying online?  It is only 4 months, what is the rush?

I would contact one of those online companies that do background checks and I would pay to do a background check on him to see what comes up.  If everything comes back in a positive light, I would arrange for him to meet me and see where the relationship goes from there.

I would wait a year before deciding to marry him.

She Tells My Husband All Of My Personal Business.

Anonymous Question:  Hello SashaMonique, I have a friend that I have known since we were children and she always had a streak of jealousy.  I always looked over this because I considered her family.  She was over at my house about a month ago and when I stepped out of the room, she told my husband some of my secrets from the past.

 I don't know why she did this but I assume it was to cause some problems between me and my husband. I haven't called her but my husband told me everything that she said and he was upset.  Should I cut all ties with her or what?

Sashamoniquetalks:  There are a lot of women who try to pretend to be your friend and I don't understand their logic but if I was you, I would talk to her one last time to tell her that you didn't appreciate that she told your husband all of your business but I would never talk to her again because that was inappropriate and it seems like she may be interested in your husband. She really does seem like she is jealous of you.