I Went To Jamaica For Two Years And Just Found Out I Am Divorced.
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Anonymous Question: Hello, SashaMonique, I went to Jamaica and stayed for two years because I love acting and singing but the market is not good in the state where I live. Many days I dreamed about living in Jamaica, it was something that I was adamant about.
The problem is, I have a husband of seven years and he is really kind and sweet but I told him that I wanted to move to Jamaica and he said that he couldn't go because he had a lot going on in his career right now and he knew that it would harder to establish himself in a career in Jamaica.
My husband told me to go and he would support me in anything that I wanted to do. Secretly, I was hoping he would change his mind and come with me. Never have I had a problem with my husband and we were truly in love with each other.
So, two years passed and I decided to come home and when I opened the door, I saw all sorts of letters on the floor and my husband was not there. I went next door to talk to my neighbor and he said that my husband had moved out eight months ago.
My neighbor also told me that my husband was married to someone else, I said that it couldn't be true and he assured me that it was. I did not believe that my marriage was over so I did some more checking and my neighbor was right, my husband divorced me and he did it illegally.
Now, I am in a very dark place in my life, because things did not pan out in Jamaica and I don't have a job or anything. I am sorry for the long question but I hope that you can help me.
Sashamoniquetalks: Hello, I am so sorry that this happened to you but I wonder whether or not your husband had a relationship going on before you left because it sounds like this could be a possibility. Now, I am going to say this, why would you go to another country without your husband? You took a big chance.
There is a possibility that your husband really loved you but could not deal with you being gone. Please go and seek some legal advice to see if you can get some financial compensation such as; Alimony because he definitely did this behind your back.
Speak to some of his family members to find out all the details of why your husband married his current wife. I cannot answer any further because this is a legal matter.
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Anonymous Question: Hello, SashaMonique, I went to Jamaica and stayed for two years because I love acting and singing but the market is not good in the state where I live. Many days I dreamed about living in Jamaica, it was something that I was adamant about.
The problem is, I have a husband of seven years and he is really kind and sweet but I told him that I wanted to move to Jamaica and he said that he couldn't go because he had a lot going on in his career right now and he knew that it would harder to establish himself in a career in Jamaica.
My husband told me to go and he would support me in anything that I wanted to do. Secretly, I was hoping he would change his mind and come with me. Never have I had a problem with my husband and we were truly in love with each other.
So, two years passed and I decided to come home and when I opened the door, I saw all sorts of letters on the floor and my husband was not there. I went next door to talk to my neighbor and he said that my husband had moved out eight months ago.
My neighbor also told me that my husband was married to someone else, I said that it couldn't be true and he assured me that it was. I did not believe that my marriage was over so I did some more checking and my neighbor was right, my husband divorced me and he did it illegally.
Now, I am in a very dark place in my life, because things did not pan out in Jamaica and I don't have a job or anything. I am sorry for the long question but I hope that you can help me.
Sashamoniquetalks: Hello, I am so sorry that this happened to you but I wonder whether or not your husband had a relationship going on before you left because it sounds like this could be a possibility. Now, I am going to say this, why would you go to another country without your husband? You took a big chance.
There is a possibility that your husband really loved you but could not deal with you being gone. Please go and seek some legal advice to see if you can get some financial compensation such as; Alimony because he definitely did this behind your back.
Speak to some of his family members to find out all the details of why your husband married his current wife. I cannot answer any further because this is a legal matter.
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